Freedom from
the bondage of desire comes from Letting Go: letting go of things, to do lists, projects, ideas.
The Buddhist ideal
of non-attachment hits it right on. So
do Taoist principles, and the modern minimalist movement.
If we don't like a
movie or a book, we should not feel compelled to finish it.
Walking away is
empowering. Suffering through a project
we lost interest in, simply "to finish", is a waste of time, and
self-inflicted imprisonment.
Collecting things
for the purpose of "using them someday" just adds to our stress,
constantly reminding us that we're not doing things we've resolved to do. Giving away those things, or giving them up,
gets us freedom to do whatever else we actually want to do at the moment.
Fortune and fame, especially, need so
much effort to collect and maintain. Those who have them long to be unknown and under the
radar, free to do simple things without all the attention and headaches.
Every layer of
letting go unwraps a deeper feeling of freedom.
At the same time, every hangup
about letting go is a thread in a spiderweb keeping us from total liberation. Some tethers, like our children,
are necessary and positive. Often,
though, the tethers are illusory, a product of our own tendencies to collect
and plan.
Let go of old
clothes, books, etc. Whatever we're not
using and not likely to use.
Let go of our past,
or parts of our lives we're done with.
Do not embark on a journey to the future laden with a heavy past.
Be the Nomad that
picks up and moves at an hour's notice, following the rain.
Let go of anger. In forgiveness you find peace.
Let go of bitterness. That's the way to happiness.
Let go of regrets. We cannot do anything about the past, so what's the point of dwelling on it?
Only the present
matters.
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